One of the challenges that many grindr trans women faced with is how to say no How to say no to dating invitation, how to say on to invitations from families and friends, more importantly, how to end a shemale dating relationship? While, for most people, it is significant to say no when they meet the wrong person, otherwise, they have to date the wrong person in a coffee bar, or start a wrong relationship with the wrong person. When I get on with transgender women, I found that they don’t think they have the right to say no, so the first step is to make them know that everyone has the right to say no. Your time is precious, it can’t be wasted on the wrong person. Instead of wasting your time on the wrong person, you can obtain more important things with finite time.
It is is hard to understand, just think that your time is as precious as your money, will you waste your money on something useless? Imaging that you will give a part of your money to the one you tranny date. If he is important to consider about then spend your time with him, if not, say no to him. Next, you should know that your desire is as important as other people’s desire, everyone needs to date with the one they want. You are saying no, you are not to killing or harming them.
Here are some tips on how to say no.
Ignoring unnecessary request. For example, if a telemarketer call you to buy a product which is unnecessary for you, it is appropriate and preferable to say no. It is the same as meeting the wrong person who asks you out for date. If you don’t response their messages, they will keep messaging you. So it is necessary to say no to someone you don’t like.
We all want to be kind and compassionate when getting on with other people, so the messages are always unclear. I want to mention that giving an unclear information is not the way to show your respect. Saying no to other people never mean you are disrespectful. Be straight up when get along with other people, because most of people don’t want to be with someone who beats around the bush. Treat them the way they like, you’ll be kinder and more respectful.
Will you explain when you say no to someone? In fact, it is unnecessary to do that. Giving an explanation is not the way to show your kindness. When you are asked why, you don’t need to explain the reason in detail. In fact, most of people will ask why when they are rejected, it is quite acceptable, because they want ti change themselves into a better one. Instead of telling the truth, it is kind to use pseudo-explanations, don’t start a discussion or give then any chances to persuade you, such as, “I don’t think you are the one I want”, Thanks for your invitation, but I don’t think I’m the right one for you”.